I love my g/f but also my friend! both hate each other

[Seth_in_trouble]

I have been with my 'first girlfriend' just over a month and things are going great. I love her to bits and we spend every day together. However i am madly in love with my friend who doesnt know of my feelings toward her. I dont know what i should do as sometimes when im with my girlfriend i can only think of the other girl. Both girls know and hate one another.

I would love to go out with the other girl coz we have so much in common and i think that she is perfection personified, BUT...I still like my girlfriend as she gives me much more than friendship and i enjoy being with her and we are hooked on each other and dont like to be apart. There is also a risk i could take. Tell the other girl. This could risk the friendship i have with her if she doesnt feel the same but will break my girlfriends heart if she does and i leave her for the other. Then theres always the risk of it not workin out and i have no-one coz my girlfriend doesnt like me anymore for leaving her heartbroken. This is a very tricky subject to handle and id appreciate any comments on what do to in my situation. It is killing me inside not knowing what to do.

[basschic23]

sounds like you need some time alone to think about who you love as a friend and who as a girlfriend. if it helps: most people say that opposites attract and if you have the most of the same interests a relationship would get boring. well thats wat they say...good luck

[foreverurz23]

just remember the friendship you could loose with the other one and the thing that you could loose withyour girlfriend.

good luck

 

~foreverurz23~