Should i trust her? You tell me :(

[Alaszar]

Well ok we 5 months ago started dating, after 2 or 3 months of dating we broke up because of this kid named "cody", she liked

 

him but she always told me that no, that he is like a brother to her and she does not like him like that. I didnt believe

 

it, so anyways after we broke up, 1 week later she went out with him, they lasted 2 weeks becuz i asked her if she would

 

hang out with me, she

 

said sure, so we went to a movie, i hugged her told her that i missed her, then after the movie we kissed, so she broke up

 

with him the next day, in other words she cheated on him with me, which i dont care cuz he is an idiot anyways... i ask her

 

so how was it dating cody? she said that he never called her and that he never wanted to hang out with her cuz he was always

 

with his friends, so i thought to myself that she only wanted me back juz to have someone that gave her attention.

 

anyways... we said we loved to each other and we kissed hugged hang out, like boy/girl friends would do, 2 days later, she

 

went to my best friends house with her best friend,she told me that he called her and told her that he was sick and he wanted

 

them to go to his house and keep him company, i was kidna like damn... ok so...

they were already there when she told me that, it was like during school sometime that they went, anyways she was goign to

 

pick me up after school she never came, i called her she didnt answer, then

 

when she did answer she told me that she was watchign a movie and that it juz started and that she wanted to finish it, so i

 

told her "ok baby i will wait for you at the school" she said ok love you bye. Then it had been like 3 hours i call her and

 

she said that she forgot to pick me up after the movie... anyways she comes, i was mad, she was like sorry sorry and all that

 

crap...

 

anyways next day we normally hang out and stuff, then the day after that, we went to buy stuff with her parents to stores, me

 

and her were sitting on a bench juz talking, then i tell her, "so.. andre(MY FRIEND) told me you guys did stuff together...

 

like touch" or something like that( i was just joking of course cuz he didnt tell me anything), and she said no... then she

 

said o yea he wanted me to kiss him but i didnt... i was like WHAT?! what else did you do?, anyways, we started arguing alot

 

and

 

so i told her that i was going to call him, she said no, so she confess all she did, they kissed, he wanted her to touch his

 

* * * * and she said she didnt but i dont trust her, he had no shirt on, they hugged and he touched her boobs, i think he did

 

about the same to her friend too, he reached down her pants, she said that she smaked his hands out of it... i didnt believe

 

that iether....

so ok, they were hours at his house and omg crap juz came to my mind you know? of everything they did, and i caLLED andre

 

told him i was going to freaking kick his * * * * *, he told me why man? i told him why, then he said "she is saying it her way

 

dont believe her..." but damn he is a freaking pervert also so i know it happened, thing is that i told her that i dont want

 

to date her and she cryed she begged me to take her back and i said i hope you find someone that loved you as much as i did,

 

Then her excuse was that me and her werent dating... just because i didnt ask her out again.. wat da hell?

 

and i told her that i freaking said i loved her and she said i love you back and we did all this thigns that meant so much,

 

and she did that to me, i felt horrible, i forgave her. But it is still in my freaking mind that she will do it to me agian

 

even though she promised she woudlnt u know? i always have this feelings that when im not with her she is flirting with

 

someone and making plans to see each other, i juz dont trust her, oh and the reason i broke up with her the 1st time was

 

because she said that if i ever beat up cody or even touch him that she would break up with me, so i was like waht? screw u

 

and cody, its over , bye...

 

And that is why i dont trust her... do you understand why i cant trust her? i try to but i juz cant she hurt me alot and

 

everytime i thinka bout it it stil hurts.

 

We fight for every little thing, she makes big problems out of nothing... Like i said that her car was ugly and she said no

 

it isnt... i said yea it is, it sux, she started crying... im like whats wrong? and she tells me that i dont respect her

 

car... and i think to my self... omg what a immature girl im dating and i also think about how much i want to not love her

 

anymore so it wont hurt so much if we brake up again. I love this girl so much and she loves me, but i dont really feel her

 

love towards me as the one i have for her. im 17 she is 16 by the way. Im sorry for the swearing folks, but i dont know what

 

to do with this relation ship, i hope you could help me at least give me the hopes to start beliving her like i used to, i

 

just feel so bad for what she has done in the past, she told me she never done anythign else besides that and the reason she

 

went out with cody was because she wanted to get back at me for breaking up with her, i knew damn wel that she liked him, juz

 

like lot of girls say they like him. I just need help with this problems folks, Thank you for reading. + Vix +

[HaloDestroyer]

She's playing around behind your back.

 

In my honest opinion, I would end it now, and stop the pain right here.

 

This will prevent you eventually finding out the probably awful truth.

 

Sorry to be the bearer of grim tidings.

 

Hope this helps...

[Drizown]

She's just not THAT into you. If she cared she wouldn't have let you go the first time and DEFFINETLEY wouldn't have started up this "relationship" with Cody, regardless of her intentions. Plus if she really did love you she wouldn't have done anything with your bestfriend... which by the way you need better friends that's awful. Even if you weren't "back together" she shouldn't have messed around with your bestfriend, that's like an unspoken code kinda thing. Especially if she wanted you back. This girls trouble and you need to move on, she's already abused your trust and doesn't sound to me she's too interested in earning it back. Do yourself a favour and find someone that will care about you back.

[Alaszar]

Thank you so much for your opinions, i will you guys are making me think alot, thank you, but yea i should end it right now, and forget about her, not even be her friend cuz that would cause me pain as well.

Thanks again.