lilfighter Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 To make a long story short....I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. Our relationship started when we both cheated on our bf and gf to be with each other. He cheated on me, then I cheated on him, then he cheated on me again. We're really trying to work all of this out. Do you think it can work? Or will we just end up cheating on each other again? I feel in my heart that he wants to be faithful and I do too. What do you think I should do? Link to comment
ElektraHere Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 I don't think this is a healthy relationship. It started under the guise of cheating and has cheated on you twice. You will only do what you want to do but I suggest leaving this unhealthy relationship behind and figure out why it is you cheat on your boyfriends? Link to comment
spunkykatt Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 Why do u want to work it out, if you both have cheated on eachother, then isnt there a good chance that this cycle will just continue to repeat itself, and thats very unhealthy. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 It won't work, there is no trust in ur relation. Both of u act the children, one who can hurt worst than the other. Link to comment
novaseeker Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 I hate to say it, but I don't think this is going to work. You both seem to need to make a real decision not to cheat again, and because your relationship itself was founded on cheating, and has featured more cheating after that ... I think you both need to figure out what inside you makes you want to cheat and get past that, but this relationship probably isn't going to be the context for that at this stage. Link to comment
tarakan Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 Wow, lilfighter - you are telling the story of my current relationship the exact sequence. Well, all that crap happened about half a year ago and now I am trying to understand myself - check my WHY MEN CHEAT thread: Overall, the situation is unhealthy and quite risky, but aren't we born to risk? Link to comment
LotusFlower Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 If you feel like he is the one...we must remember relationships are also about learning...there is a chance i suppose that you can help eachother, learn and grow stronger...or...have an open relationship or take a break and see if the time apart clears some stuff up for you...spending time away is healthy sometimes Link to comment
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