Approaching a girl when she is working.

[tomservo]

I saw this really cute girl at this bookstore cafe the other night. I finally got up the nerve to talk to her last night (well, technically. I ordered some hot chocolate and that was the extent of the conversation And I'm thinking about going back today/tonight and maybe asking for her phone number.

 

My question is, for any girls that have been approached at work, is this a good idea? I mean, would *you* be annoyed? The only problem is the amount of time I would have to make a good impression and make her comfortable with me before I asked for the number.

 

Any suggestions?

[trucker119]

Hey man I was in the same boat as you yesterday. Check out this thread:

 

 

[tomservo]

Woah! That's crazy man.

 

Good luck! And keep us posted.

[OceanEyes]

You'll never know unless you ask!

 

The thing about approaching ANY girl in any situation, is that if she's interested, she's interested. It probably won't matter where you see her.

 

I was a waitress, and would have the occasional customer invite me "out after work", for my phone number, ask questions about whether or not I had a boyfriend, etc. I had always been in a relationship, but if I hadn't, my answers to these questions would have been based entirely on whether or not I actually liked the guy. Was he interesting? Attractive? Funny? Did I feel chemistry? Chances are really good that I would have said, "sorry, but I'm not available" if I said 'NO' to any of these questions.