lil_cheeky_monkey Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 k i've been going out with this guy for about 2 weeks now and i like him alot, i mean he looks at me the way the guys in the movies look at their girlfriends it drives me crazy. I really want him to kiss me or i kiss him either way but hes really shy and neither of us have ever kissed anyone before i dont know wat to do! Help please!?! Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 Hi. I'm shy too and only had my first kiss a few months ago, so I know how nervewracking and scary it is. First thing is to relax. Kissing really is natural once you get into it and manage to calm the nerves down. You'll know what to do pretty quickly. You both like each other, right? So you have nothing to worry about, you'll enjoy it. And since neither of you has kissed, you won't have to think about being compared to another person or living up to expectations. You are both going through the same nervousness, which can make it easier on you since you know the other person feels the same as you. So, what do you do? When you are together, just relax and have fun. There generally comes a moment where you are looking at each other and you can just feel that you want to kiss each other. So stop thinking about it, and just do it. Don't think about anything, don't worry about it, just go with your feelings, live in the moment, and enjoy. Link to comment
allstar18 Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Yeah that is how I was scared about it. It took me months to finally kiss my girlfriend as well because of the thoughts about it. If you just start out with a small one and then you will get your butterflies out and it will lead to bigger kisses. After a small little kiss you will be fine and want to do it again. Don't think about it and just do it. That's what I had to do I would double think it and I never would do it. After that I just said I'm doing this and went for it and he is probably the same way. He probably wants to kiss you as well and is just scared because you guys have never done it before. Link to comment
flutegirl23 Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 i kissed my boyfriend first because he was too nervous to kiss me. granted, the time was right, and i didn't just go plant one on him when he wasn't expecting it. maybe, if he drops you off somewhere hug him and go to kiss him on the cheek but aim a little lower and his the corner of his mouth. just an idea. or start small and just the cheek. maybe he's not sure whether you want to be kissed. that's a way of letting him know. Link to comment
lil_cheeky_monkey Posted February 28, 2006 Author Share Posted February 28, 2006 Yeah so we finally kissed on this past friday night and it really wasnt that hard-- it also helped when he said not to be scared. Anyways thanks for the help Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 Way to go lil_cheeky_monkey!!!! Here's to many more kisses just as sweetas the first. Link to comment
Northern Raccoon Posted March 10, 2006 Share Posted March 10, 2006 He is probably to hesitant, you should make the first move. Link to comment
Tesseract_Witch Posted March 11, 2006 Share Posted March 11, 2006 He is probably to hesitant, you should make the first move. Oh, don't relate that to another instance I know of; it'll never happen. You have to jump first, I'm afraid. Heh, heh, heh... Link to comment
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