Do you think this guy has any intentions of calling?

[natash24]

Hey all ( this is a repost but I needed some more opinions)

 

I met this one guy I really like he's my age (26) at a party. My girlfriend went up to him and said that I wanted to meet him and so he talked to me the whole night and said that we should hang out sometime. So he told me to put his number in my cell and to call him. But I told him I don't call guys. I give them my number and if they want then they call. So he took his cell phone out and put my number in and called my cell right away and said now you have my cell, I called you so you have to call me next. My question is why did he do that? Was it because he was trying to play hard to get? Or like he didn't really care to impress me or was being a jerk? Anyways I called him on Sunday to say Hi and got his voicemail and left a message. It's been like 3 days and he hasn't returned my call. My question for you all is do you think he was interested in the first place? I have to admit I was ignoring him a bit because I was talking to the guitarist from this band that was playing but I figured it would make me look more intriguing . Anyways I am not sure if I am over-reacting and should just wait and this is how men do it, wait to return calls from women they just met to not be too eager. This dating stuff kinda still boggles me. But please write back with opinions. Thanks

[LilLady]

Hi! I am talking of my past experience here, sometimes acting hard to get works wonderfuls, but maybe you played too hard, and that maked you seem not interested. Even the part when you talked to the guitarist, guys can be jealous sometimes, and you shouldn't try it on the first date. Anyways, I'd wait a little to see if he calls, or maybe call him back again till he answers you. If you don't hear from him again, give up on him! Always keep in mind, that he's the one losing the wonderful you. Goodluck for next time

[bzborow1]

Sounds to me he was pretty honest with you. You said you wanted him to call first so he did. Actually that's a pretty good move he made. If you wanna see him why not just call him?

[basschic23]

maybe he never got the voicemail, it happens. maybe he was stupid and lost your number somehow. try calling again and if you can't get a hold of him...forget him.

[natash24]

To the last reply I did call him and got his voicemail and left him a message to call me back but it has been 3 days and nothing. I was wondering if this is what guys do or if it is a clear indication that he is not interested. thanks

[owlman]

I must say that the whole "I don't call guys" idea doens't work for me. Major turn off. If a guy wants to give you his number, he's probably interested in you. Why not go ahead a call. I personally think what he did was pretty slick. If it's been 3 days, call again.