history of cheating- still date??

[janey17]

hey

i'm just curious if any of you have dated someone before and you knew that they had cheated on someone in the past- either you or someone else- and you still went for it

thanks guys

[red10]

um...i would say no, don't go for it - but if you do decide to go fot it, maybe have a talk with him about his "reasoning" for the cheating...you know guys, they always come up with something (as do us ladies)- but if you do, just be cautious

[annie24]

If they cheated in the far past (ie, high school) or 10 years ago, I'd say that it's probably not a big deal. They were young and stupid.

 

But... otherwise, I'd say don't do it. It's really the lying and betrayal that are bad. Clearly, they are unhappy with their relationship but they don't have the guts to do something about it, so they cheat instead of either fixing the problem or breaking up. They are cowards. Don't date them.

[newts]

Some people will always cheat, however, not ever body continues to cheat. Boundaries need to be set, once they are set, there is no going back if they do cheat.

[G xx]

my ex boyfriend was honest with me and told me about cheating on his ex girlfriend (twice) because he was honest i had more respect for him and the honestly and trust continued until we broke up the reason being we were honest about our feelings and continued to be friends xx

the saying once a cheater always a cheater may be true in a lot of cases, but if you dont give him a chance and tell him your worries you will always wonder what if ????? x