Babes Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 Why are all the great men in the world taken? Most of them by girls that dont love them or by wondful girls that well its just to hard to hate them. So I am stuck with all the crazy psyco ones because all the good ones are either taken or they stay at home or they live on the other side of the country. Just needed to vent Link to comment
pimpcess Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 Why are all the great men in the world taken? Most of them by girls that dont love them or by wondful girls that well its just to hard to hate them. So I am stuck with all the crazy psyco ones because all the good ones are either taken or they stay at home or they live on the other side of the country. Just needed to vent Could I agree any more?!?!?! Taken. Or gay. Equally annoying. Link to comment
faeriechyld Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 Men are like ... Parking Spots ..... All the good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped or way the hell out there! Link to comment
pimpcess Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 I know, and there like buses, u dont get 1 4 ages, then 4 come along at once! How annoying. Link to comment
SAS Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 Negative places are where I find negative people but in a place where there is positive surrounding, you will find the good ones. It's Good to vent out when needed. I could understand. . . . . I wish you the best. . . . . Link to comment
tmills0011607306452 Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 LOL!!! I was wondering the same thing about women!!! I have never found a great one yet (Since they all--exs-- seem to take advantage of me wearing my heart on my sleeve!) ! But as people say! They're out there! There's gotta be one that does the same as I do! Link to comment
pimpcess Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 See!! Men, women, all the same really! Link to comment
j-boe Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 Jesus you girls are truly blind... The guy next to you would probably be the best fit but you all kick him to the side... (He's only a friend, that's because I never found him attractive... Even though he would care more about me than most of my ex-b/f ever have!) Where are all the good men at? Open your eyes.... -j Link to comment
babycristy456 Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 what goes around comes around. I've always been the one to attract those hot, nice guys...u know, the one ur mother is in love with herself, the ones that bring u roses and candy and are doing something with their lives... and i never quite appreciated them until i got what was coming for me. I left a nice guy, treated him like sh!t...and then i met "someone better"...well, this "better guy" cheated on me, lied, used me...blah blah...the list goes on and on. Ijust learned a good damned lesson. Next time that nice guy comes around (which i know he will, bc i have always attracted the nice ones) im gonna be the nicest girl a guy can have! Im going to treat them the way they deserve. and definitely not go out with anymore guys like the one that "taught me the lesson"!! well good luck to everyone finding that perfect guy...i know every girl is in search for him... love cristy Link to comment
pimpcess Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 Wow Im the complete opposite I attract the bad boys, vain ones, there the 1s I always end up with. I think they more fun. Link to comment
danieled Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 I disagree. I am still here and i am very nice guy. The question is why are women so stupid not to choose the right guys! Link to comment
taken Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 i always attract the guys who appear nice but really arent. i guess the tables have turned cause now i have a really great guy. i agree with yall. the nice guys are either right in front of you and you just cant see it or they are taken......blah blah blah. i hate that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment
foolish Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 Honestly, I can't stand a guy that is too too nice to me. There is no challenge there. I guess that's why I keep getting "Bleeped" on. Link to comment
IamLost Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 You have to find an "in between". And that does exist. I've had it where there is equal pull between the both of us as far as a challenge. And it's human nature to feel that way. No one wants a push over! But it's really hard to find the happy medium! (But what else is new!) That's how you'll know it's right! Link to comment
bzborow1 Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 It's partly your guys' fault in this. Ever heard of the phrase "nice guys finish last"? Why is that? Well it's because you women aren't interested in the nice guy, you're interested in the outgoing, partying, bold, mysterious, usually a jerk guy. It's just a fact of life. Link to comment
IamLost Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 i agree that most women (girls) like that and are attracted to that. But I have had my share of jerks. I am going to be 30 next year, and all I want is a nice guy. And I'll get one.... one day! Link to comment
Cuu Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 Nice guy do finish last. if i was a girl i'll think that nice guys are boring also. really, most nice guys don't really have any adventure in them. i said MOST, so all you mountain climbing, bungie jumping nice guys don't flame me pls but don't worry, usually when the girls are ready to settle down in life, they usually end up with the nice guy. so, i win!@ god damn why do females have to be so complicated.. Link to comment
speedracer780 Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 Hmmmm..... I can't help but feel responsible for this.... Link to comment
tmills0011607306452 Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 Nice guy do finish last. if i was a girl i'll think that nice guys are boring also. really, most nice guys don't really have any adventure in them. i said MOST, so all you mountain climbing, bungie jumping nice guys don't flame me pls but don't worry, usually when the girls are ready to settle down in life, they usually end up with the nice guy. so, i win!@ god damn why do females have to be so complicated.. Hope you put your flame suit on!!!!! I have been told that I am a great nice guy by all of my significant others. Usually when I am in a relationship, I am surrounded by other females see what I do for my prospective mate. Usually they are attracted by that and tell me as well that I am the type of guy the are looking for, nice, considerate and very heartful. But also I am a very adventurous person. I do enjoy life and have to experience new things. I always try to expose my significant others to those type of things, but more so than often, I find myself with someone who is not as adventurous as I am, and would consider drinking all night long in a college environment other that trying new things. Why? Because these people are scared of life, or scared to experience things that are out of the norm for them. It has nothing to do with being nice at all or being a great person! I see way to many people take advantage of each other while being complacent and bored with their lives. I'm not going to be that way, but I'll be sure as hell not to sacrifice who I am, especially to anybody I am interested in. Me, adventurous? Yes. Great guy? I'd like to think so, that's what I am told by my peers anyway! So there are these type of people out there! Link to comment
speedracer780 Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 dont' slap yourself on the back to hard.... Being a nice guy takes a bit of modesty too. I'm just wondering about the drinking all night in a college environment. It's College!! That's what you do! I graduated from my undergrad not too long ago and I liked the party atmosphere. I had a blast. And I'm not afraid of life. I surf, rock climb, mountain bike, skate, play variuos instuments, paint, etc... Doesn't sound like a person who is afraid of life. All the people that I "sat" around and drank with.... all enjoy the same things. Don't judge what you don't know... Link to comment
Cuu Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 lol, i guess i'm only 1/2 the man you are. I'm a nice guy but not very adventurous. I'm not scared of life or experimenting, but i do play if safe a lot to times. I admire you for being so outgoing. speedracer is right though. i used to despise people who'd drink. people that do drink are very social. you just gotta give them a chance. Why not just ask the females on this forum. What do you females really want from a guy? a bad boy type or a nice guy with family values?? lets see how many females will avoid my question. Link to comment
speedracer780 Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 Why not both? Why not an adventurous intelligent guy who likes to be wild and crazy but treats women like the godesses they are? Trust me they're out there... 8) Link to comment
tmills0011607306452 Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 dont' slap yourself on the back to hard.... Being a nice guy takes a bit of modesty too. I'm just wondering about the drinking all night in a college environment. It's College!! That's what you do! I graduated from my undergrad not too long ago and I liked the party atmosphere. I had a blast. And I'm not afraid of life. I surf, rock climb, mountain bike, skate, play variuos instuments, paint, etc... Doesn't sound like a person who is afraid of life. All the people that I "sat" around and drank with.... all enjoy the same things. Don't judge what you don't know... I guess I was three steps ahead in my thinking processes when I wrote my past post! I Should have explained my analagy! Sorry! I am in the air force. I have been in for just over 7 years now. I have left the dorm environment long ago. But there are a few social groups that continue this mentality that I know well into their upper 20's early 30's and some into almost their 40's. (Hence the Collage environment Analogy!) I'm past that phase, and I am the type of person that has to have a diversified life. My past post did not have the intention of patting myself on the back. I'm a very humble person, and I will admit my faults and have the mindset to correct them. But more so to prove that there are people out there that are great people and aren't boring. Don't judge what you don't know... That was an unnecssisary flame...but thank you! I'll take my ignorance in the subject and kindly be quiet in my thoughts of what I do know and have experienced in life. Link to comment
faeriechyld Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 Depends on what stage of life a girl is in. Personally, I just want to have fun. Whether it is with a "bad" boy or a "nice" boy, as long as they are willing to go out and have a good time with me. That's great. What I end up finding are ones that want to settle down and get married...at age 19!!!! And I'm sorry, but no thank you. If I'm married by age 30, I'll be in shock. Nice guys are good to settle down with and I'm dating a guy who is perfectly nice to me. I like a guy who wants what I want in a relationship, not too serious. I always thought it was the girls who wanted to settle down and the guys who went running for the hills, apparently in southern maryland, we're really backwards. Link to comment
annagladys Posted July 10, 2003 Share Posted July 10, 2003 Babes Please refer to my most recent post. This is definitely the reason why..... I think most women aren't aware of this- and yes it is rather depressing once you realize what exists for your future. I am in the same boat. Annagladys Link to comment
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