My boyfriend of 1 and a half years just broke up with me

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Please help! My boyfriend of 1 and a half years just broke up with me. We've been living together for a year, he even moved 1300 miles from home to stay with me. We've been living with my parents and a month before we were supposed to get our own apartment, we started having problems. He told me he needed some time and that he really wanted us to work, and that he still wanted to marry me. But I went away for a few days and when I came back, he was living with a girl he's only known for a month whose pregnant with someone else's baby!!!!! When I found this out I told him I needed to talk to him, in person, and when she found out, she told him no. So, I was going to go see him when she was at work, and she found that out and told me to stop calling, that if he said it was over to accept it and move on. I told her he said he still wanted to work on it with me and she made him get on the phone and tell me it was over. He couldnt, he hung up, called back, hung up again, and then called back and said it was over and hung right up. I know he isn't happy, but he's stubborn. I don't want to beg him to come back, I'm to hurt to take him back, but I want to talk to him. Please help, any advice????

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Thanks for the advice. I needed to hear it. I still miss him so much, but we're young and we need some time. I know I need some time to think. And by the way, I don't see crying as a sign of weakness. If your girlfriend thinks you're weak because you cried, then she probably has never met a "strong" guy. The way I've always seen it, guys who arent afraid to show what they feel are not weak, they're actually stronger than most. Good luck

[Lone Star1607306437]

Hey there Ms. Pictures. I'm sorry yer grieving over that feller.

Take it a breath at a time and don't worry about the tears..let em' rip!

Jest remember that you were fine before he came along and you will be fine again. You found good company coming to this forum. We're all a bunch of losers...okay we're not losers. It just makes you feel that way sometimes when you're the one left holding the bag. Makes you want to put dog poop in the bag, put it on his porch and set it on fire dosen't it?!

 

Hope you find peace little lady. God bless ya!

 

Lone Star

[whitci]

I'm in a really similar situation, and I know how hard it is to even believe that your relationship could be over. It sounds like you're doing a really great job, and you should be proud of how strong you are. Just remember that you're okay without him and, no matter what happens, you'll be able to be happy and healthy. Best of luck!