She came back...

[Anthony M]

For those of you who haven't read my letter from the ex thread, I've been chasing my ex for over 5 months and I decided to do NC 3 weeks ago. Well it worked, but not after I put my foot down and told her I was done with her. She waited for 3 days to see if I would call my bluff and she realized I didn't and that's when she came crying back to me. We talked for hours about how I was serious about me moving on and was tired of her games. I told her if I can ignore you for 3 weeks imagine a lifetime.

 

But I'm being cautious. I will not get hurt again. I told her I need time to heal and not to expect anything from each other right now other than building our relationship back up first. We're taking things slow.

 

All I can say is that it's true, NC really works! Yes it was difficult not to answer to her calls, texts and letter(s) but you have to learn patience!

[coooolsome]

Yay!!! Congrats. Hope everything works out. Remember, this NEW relationship is going to take a lot of work and a lot of communication. Also remember that she left you once and could do it again and that you BOTH have to work at it.

[Serendipity1607307077]

Anthony, I am glad you have taken this approach. NC always works, and it's the best way to start getting over your pain. You are doing really wel.

 

Just stay strong - sometimes you may feel the urge to call her, but make sure you don't!!! And I hope everything works out for you. Keep us posted!