PLS HELP..How do i slow myself down

[Skippy]

Hi All,

Just wondering, How do i slow myself down in relationship.

I am in this relationship and i was told that i am moving tooo fast Emotionally. How do one slow oneself down?? I am serious about this question. I am moving too fast and i think i am frightening the other one away, and i dont want to do that

 

HELP. Suggestions pls

[antigravity]

I've been in the same situation.. It's tough... You know what you want, and you want it now. Why wait?

 

But you need to realise that what you want does take time. If they like you, they won't go anywhere... If they don't like you, you rushing things unfortunately won't keep them there.

 

Talk to your partner.. Find out what they want. Do whatever it is they want if you know for SURE you want to be with them.

 

If they want to take things slow, ask them what they mean by that. Is it taking things slow physically? You need to talk and find out what they mean.

[OmegaMan]

I don´t believe in contradictions. I you are not doing something, it´s because you have a very good reason to keep doing it. Figure out why you want to go so fast, andyou will figure out your own solution.

 

Best of Luck.

 

Omega

[Dating Coach]

What's the whole situation? Are you coming on too strong in your relationship? It's not a dealbreaker to feel your emotions but if yo are acting them out when your partner isn't near your level yet then that is a bad thing and could cause the person to leave you.

[darkblue]

Do not act as if you need the person you are seeing - you don't.

Enjoy their company and value them.

Things will move at their own pace.