How many times?

[frustrated101]

I'm in a relationship with my bf right now for the past three years, he says that he is not getting enough sex in the relationship. I don't know what to do anymore I was very sexually active when I was younger but never had a real loving relationship with anyone. This is the first time for me that I feel something real with someone for once. Sex is usually every two to three days apart, I think this is okay he says it's not enough.

 

If you have been with someone for the past year and up how many times a week do you say you have sex? I don't want to get personal or anything I'm just curious of the ratio of people.

 

Ps I am in my early thirties and he is in his late 20's.

[PersonalMe]

hey, well i think what we have here is probably to much hornyness ...and i think since he is younger he seems to be very attracted to sex, (as most guys!) and all he wants is sex, but i think that every 3 days is totally fine, maybe in between those days do sex games and 4play, but no sex, just to not have TOO much sex ....good luck bye!

[melrich]

So I'm guessing he wants sex every second day or every day?

 

Don't take this the wrong way but why are you not wanting sex so often?

 

I mean do you enjoy it or is it a bit of a chore for you? Because I don't think there is a standard answer to your question. How much sex is right is probably how much sex you want.

 

Every 3 days on average is OK if that is what you both want.

[Dubzuk]

maybe u should tell him to make u feel more sexy and then maybe u will feel like u want sex more,