Help me out ladies!!(or guys)

[Spikeyhair18]

I have been friends with this one girl for about 4 years,we have always been friends and never really thought about dating,we were jsut good friends. Well about a month ago i told her that i liked her as more than friends and she said she felt the same way about me,BUT,her parents are very strict about dating and she feels we still need to learn alot more about eachother,and that were still too young to start dating.(Im 19 and she is 18 btw) I was totaly cool about the whole thing,but i soon learned that i just couldnt stand just being friends,my feelings for her were just too much. I started to kinda act liek we were dating,talking to her alot more than normal,hanging out more ect ect. So a couple days ago i learned from a friend that she thought that i was like rearin to get married or somthing,but im not. Plus i learned that shes kinda into this other guy,nothing seriouse,he even lives like two hours away from her.But just the fact that i know about him maked me so uneasy.Plus i dont know why she would have her eye on another guy if she wasnt interested in getting into a relationship.I know what your thinkin,she dosent really like me huh,well she does,believe u me.Her friends tell me how much she wishes we could be together,she jsut feels that im pushing thigs too fast.

So my question to all you out there is can i show her my feeling without making her feel like im moving in for the kill. I really like this girl alot i dont know wut i would do if i did somthing to jeapordize our friendship. Any help would be much appreciated

[in_the_mirror]

just act like you did while you were friends just like start holding hands or something suttle like that

[rvr350]

Sometimes you don't have to work too hard to get what you want. Looks like the girl still has a lot of choices, and you are probably high on the list, but you're not her only choice. If she tells her friend that you're pressuring her too much, keep it light, and just let her know the real you. No need to act romantic if you're not, no need to act like a good conversationist if you're not.

 

I think that way, you'll perform way better, because you don't have to think about what you're gonna do and say next to impress her. Hope that helped.