NC the best thing?

[iamconfused5302]

Thanks for stopping by. After we broke up, we didnt speak for a week. Then afterwards, she invited me and my friends to a club. That night she was all over me like we were going out. Then we spoke the next day about the diff. we had during our relationship. Few days later, she wanted me to come down, we had a one on one meeting or date, whatever u may call it. she wanted to take things slow. In the mean time i had to make the inititative of the first move on contact. NOw, im just doing the NC thing. I just want to see if she misses me and wants me back again. She has told my good friend of mine, that she cares for me alot and likes me. but who knows. whats going to happen in the future.

[Dannysgirl]

It seems like she is playing games you by blowing hot and cold in this way. I would continue NC and be very cool with her if you ever see her, she wants to see wether you want to get back with her and when you show her that you do it gives her a real ego boost.

 

Keep up the NC and start going out with your friends more.

[Goofy7878]

I find that women when they have been drinking become more.........um how do i say it, vulnerable to residue from feelings they once had. be careful brother, look up once in a while to make sure she's not calling all the shots, and telling you when to come down, and when you can't.