Why do guys always look for looks?

[OPP]

What really bugs me about guys is that they are always looking at girls for the breasts, butt, and if they are skinny. I am sorry but I would be more happy with a guy that has some meat on him because then I wouldn't be afraid of hurting him. What is so sexy about a girl that weights like 98 pounds or even 124 pounds. I would think that the guys would want someone that looks healthy not sick. I don't know you guys let me know what and why you pick the skinny girls?

[I_Need_Help]

personaly i dont just look at looks i look at personality and other things like that. looks do play a part but i hate annorexick (if thats how u spell it) girls. i like a healthy looking girl. and she doesnt even have to have big boobs

[faeriechyld]

First of all, 124 pounds, depending on the height, is not "sick" that IS healthy. A 5'5 or 5'4 girl who weighs somewhere around that is exactly where they should be according to their BMI (body mass index) look it up. And they are at that weight because they excercise on a regular basis and eat right, not because they starve themselves.

98 is obviously another story.

Secondly, not all guys look at a girl for looks. Many go by personality and those that don't are not worth our time. And by the way, I know plenty of girls, possibly more girls than I know guys, who go for looks and are extremely superficial. So it's like that on both ends.

Keep looking and know that no matter what other people think, you are beautiful, think of yourself that day and I guarentee guys will begin to see you that way as well, inside and out.

[cookies]

the old saying goes, "Different strokes 4 different folks"...and its true. but all guys dont like thin chiks, some like women with aLOT of meat on their bones...and some like chicks that are just thick and not skinny or fat. Its all a mtter of individual preference. I dont like guys that are too thin or too big, i like guys that are just right...kinda buff, or at least like to work out. with a lil muscle, because i think it would compliment my taste...

 

Its also true that "personality" is important,...but c'mon. Most ppl are attracted to the physical waay before mental. but regardless...dont worry about what some guys digg in a chik, just take care of ur body, exercise so u can be the BEST you possible...and the right one that sees your finer qualities, will come along in perfect timing and sweep u away. You dont want just anybody that is attracted to ur physical build...those kind of guys seem to be everywhere and around every isle in the grocery store...

 

these type, and the others are just not meant 4 u...

 

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[sameasalways]

I am female so I shoudln't be answering your question to begin with. I can't help it though. I used to feel that way too (the stuff you are saying) but the more men I talked to, the more I realized by far that it wasnt' actually true. Most men I have talked to do not like anorexic looking girls. Most men do not like obese women either. All men unless they are looking for a prostitute like a female with a good personality and atleast half a brain. I used to be very self conscious because I have small breasts. Then the more men I saw and talked to, they were astonished at me feeling this way, and told me that they do not particularly like women with huge breasts. They said it was more important to be in proportion, and also the shape of the breasts/firmness. When I was really young I was embarrassed by my small chest, but now I really like it. I can wear all the cute bras and cute tight tshirts that I want and still not look like a walking sex ad. Anyway that is beside the point. I am just saying that most men I have talked to do not date women seriously just because of how they look. NOw don't get me wrong, its been said, by men to me , "hey you can't spot brains from accross the room". And that is so true. So of course, initially, they are looking for the hotties. But it goes beyond that too......just as women i think. I can say as a woman, its not just a man's looks......but his personality. I love it when a man is down to earth, smart, and can lauph at himself. That alone, supercedes my initial impression of how attractive they are or not. I did date super hot guyz once and they were horrible for the most part. I can say that when someone screws you over bad enough, you don't even see them for what they look like, even if they are super attractive. All I see at that point is disgust and I can't hardly handle them even touching me at that point in time. I do know men enjoy and are interested in looking at certain types of women, and if you look at porn you will see most of them are not anorexic looking at all. The women men enjoy looking at for the most part, are not waif thin like models on the catwalk. No they are very sexual though, and yes their sexual attributes are highlighted by their poses or shaving or implants, but waif thin they definitly are not. A guy told me that they just think its fun to look at the difference in women, how they are shaped, ect (of course I"m sure its "fun" when it happens to turn them on as well). But I think this aspect is totally different from what a man looks for when looking for a serious relationship. They have to click and get along and enjoy being around eachother in the end.

[kilon]

I really like big breasts and beutiful bodies.I hate skinny ones and i do not like really fat ones.But as i always say to my friends is very easy to find attractive women than inteligent. That is why!However i do beleieve that men and women do two thinks wrong. Do not try very hard and stick with only one choice.For me that is wrong.It is all about searching.If someone does not like you move to the next one.People that meet a lot of people are much more likely to find the best choice.

 

Personally i am pretty open and flexible when it comes to looks.I knew a girl , she was fat but really sexy , and i am still hitting myself that i did not do anything with her even though she liked me very much.Looks was THE ISSSUE but not anymore!I learned my lesson! And believe me when i say that guys make a lot of fuss about looks but this does not mean thet they do not do things that are opposite of what they are saying!Your insecurity is the real problem here!

[kdreger]

I like a woman who is fit because that shows she is health conscious (as I am) but I like women who are volumptuous (nice sized breasts and ass).

 

Skinny.. retch. I was with a skinny girl once - no thanks.

[AN]

It's human nature but keep this in mind. Looks attract others but it's personality that keeps them grounded. You need a little of both to catch your mate. Both hook and bait.

[sameasalways]

I'm wondering what most guyz do consider skinny though? I do not like or find myself attracted in general, to skinny men. I don't want to feel like I'm tougher than the guy, you know what I mean? So I admit I am naturally attracted to taller guyz who have some lean muscle and are healthy looking , not skinny and not overweight. I guess that would be like a 6'3 guy weight 190 lbs?

[New Found Glory]

I think what you have to realize is we(guys) do not necessarily look for only a nice body. I no plenty of girls who are not large breasted or skinny or anything like that, but they are still attractive it is just that if im walking down the street, i cant see a girls personality, i can only see her body, so if i am just going to look at someone, it will be someone with a nice body. but if i am going to sit down and have a coffee with somebody, or anything like that, then its the mind, the personality, and in my case, the most important feature, the sense of humour, that is what im looking for.

[biasedidiot2]

we guyz not alwayz look at body. id rather spend time with ppl i know that r good personality then the skinny bitchs that r to small. cause then it more fun. but ya if i c pretty gurl on street more likely 2 talk 2 her then not so pretty 1 just way guyz r.

[New Found Glory]

I think women have the wrong perception of guys, we(or at least many of us) don't look for some girl with a 6 inch waist and double D breasts. We are looking for someone attractive, and that perons i described, isnt. It's all about proportion and curves. My favourite car of all time is an old corvette stingray, why? because it is so curvatious, its got a good figure, but it still has alot under the hood.