why did he even call?

[lovestinks]

@the beginig of march i started talking to this guy. things were going well and he asked me to be his gf a month later i i think. BUT then things took a turn for the worst he got weird on me and like kinda vanished like ababy and i left him a voicemail tellin him i was done with him. the end of the semester came so school ended. i did my own thing this summer never calling or talkin to that guy again. i deleted his # so i couldnt get the urge to do anty8ing.

 

well i was on campus one day and i saw him. he saw me and it was just weird cause i didnt know wht to do so i gave him a smile but not like super friendly (i didnt want to seem immature). and he said whats up

 

weeks go by. gettin off work one day i have a voicemail from a strange number and its that guy saying he was callin to see how i was doing. i was REALLY surprised. def. the last person i was thinkin was calling me. he called me later that night again. he started tellin me how much he messed up, how he was sorry . explained why he went weird and all this and he said to me"im leavin it up to u for what u want to do,if u want to be friends more then frineds or nothing." i was like well what are u wanting from me and he said he wanted to be with me. i told him i dont know, that he hurt me and that i just didnt know. he was like ok. and we talked a little more about the whoel thing.

 

not i havent heard from him since and that was a week ago. my question is why would a guy do this? he called me....we havent talked in a long time. did i do somethin wrong? i know he wasnt drunk so i know it cant be that. i just dont get it

[sidehop]

He sounds pretty immature and to be honest and correct me if I'm wrong but he was probably giving you 'love' to get 'sex'. That's the only way I can interpret his actions. Why would a guy just disappear all of a sudden and call back whenever he feels like it? You are not his priority for sure.

[Tigris]

I agree with what Sidehop says.

 

It looks like he's not after a relationship but sex. Don't let yourself be used in this way.

 

Find yourself a boyfriend that cares.

 

Good luck.

[SexySadie7]

But she never said she even had sex with her old boyfriend.. How did you all deduce that?

I don't think people should jump to conclusions. It sounds like he's interested in you and misses you.

[lovestinks]

the thought of him wanting just sex would be put into consideration if we did have sex but we didnt. nothing along those lines even happened so that is why i am wondering about this. he knows he wouldnt get that from me, and if thats all he wanted i would be the last person he would call to get that from.

 

 

SexySadie7- i wonder if he really does miss me, it just bugs me on why he called me the one day but i havent heard from him since.

 

its just so weird. even his friend that i talked so said that he was intrested. next week classes start up again and im sure i will see him around but now im kinda nervous too cause i wonder what this whole thing was about.

[sidehop]

You just said he knows he wouldn't get that from you...as in you weren't ready or you told him something along those lines?

[lovestinks]

about havin sex? yes he knows sex is out of the picture its just somehtig he knows from knowing me that he would not get