shortnLA Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 hey well i had been with my bf for 3 years now and he betrayed me he was talking to girls on myspace and other stuff, but I'm in so much pain I feel stupid and so worthless. How can I mend my broken heart somebody help. My heart hurts I just want to erase him from my memory please.... Link to comment
djedix Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 Myspace, where ANYONE can be a playa... I can see more and more of this myspace type of thing happening, as that site gets bigger, and more people on it.. They should really call it Hook up space. Link to comment
BellaDonna Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 Well he is obviously not trustworthy and you did the right thing. I feel stupid and so worthless You're actually very smart- you dumped the guy and didn't tolerate it or let him hurt you anymore. You are worthy of much better. You will heal from this, with time. And when you meet someone new he'll still be stuck in his Myspace fantasy world, unable to form any meaningful type of relationship. At the end the fool stands alone. 3 years is a long time, but be glad he showed his true colors now, instead of stringing you along even further. At age 19 there are so many possibilities for you to find happiness again. Try to surround yourself with loved ones. Take on a new hobby. Go out and have fun. Try to do anything you can to keep yourself occupied as you heal. BellaDonna Link to comment
shortnLA Posted August 18, 2005 Author Share Posted August 18, 2005 He keeps calling and tellingme that he wasn't talking to any girls as in trying to flrt with him but i'm not stupid. My heart just can't trust him anymore and I can't be with him anymore. I'm going to start doing the NC thing since i'm movng tomorrow not very far ,but he doesn't know where it is and I'll be changing my phone number soon enough and I doubt very much I'll be trying to reach him. He's apologizing and saying he doesn't want me out of his life and that he will find me . Whatever I'm so mad and sad I dont think he will though. Link to comment
BellaDonna Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 I'm going to start doing the NC thing since i'm movng tomorrow Excellant! He's apologizing and saying he doesn't want me out of his life and that he will find me He's trying to save his behind. He now has to deal with the consequences of his actions. He needs to give you your space. Should you decide you want to talk to him again, that is your call. He shouldn't be saying he's going to "find you". If he gets "stalkerish" be sure to hold your ground. BellaDonna Link to comment
Strictly4MyGrind Posted August 19, 2005 Share Posted August 19, 2005 are you sure of what he did though or are you just jumping to conclusions? everybody deserves a second chance. up to you if you want to give him one. and you think he wont find you then your having a laugh if this guy likes you and after 3 years damn thats a long time he will then hell treck accross the world to looking for you so..... Link to comment
Bounder Posted August 19, 2005 Share Posted August 19, 2005 Was he just on there? Or actively looking for hook ups, I know people who dont see it as a hook up site at all Link to comment
shortnLA Posted August 19, 2005 Author Share Posted August 19, 2005 Yes I saw him on there.!!!! Saying I like to use my hands for different things hit me up if you don't know what I mean. OMG I can't believe he did that to me. I 'm so disappointed. I haven't stop crying since I find out. Link to comment
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