Question re: NC with bf who says he still wants to talk

[phishgirl]

My bf of 4 yrs and I broke up ~1 month ago-my doing originally, then I changed my mind after 1 week apart.. He then said he felt "there was a reason" if I wanted to break up and said he needed more time to heal. We've been talking sporadically since, and played pool/hooked up on Wed., discussing the consequences since. He doesn't want to lead me on by this interaction (we made love and I spent the night with him), and I said OK. His company is closing its doors in Dec. He needs to decide where to move, as his co. is giving him job offers elsewhere. He tells me he 'would' move without me, but will he? He says "I don't know". I asked him if he didn't want me to call him, but he said no, it's ok, you can call me. He's said, "I want this to work with you, but now I have to protect myself." I have no idea what to do. I want to be back with him so much. What should I do to get him back? NC? Or contact him and be friendly with him without commitment?

[SilverManic]

keep contact with him and see how things go. I'm sorry but you did break up with him orriginally so the ball is in his court. He said he wants it to work with you so give him time to heal. It's on his terms now not yours so just be pasient.

~S.