i don't understand this at all

[dimp62003]

my b/f and i were driving around last night and this chick calls him and shes asking him who was that girl that was on your phone earlyer and hes like does it matter and she got all mad and kept on calling so i answerd it and she like starts yelling at me b/c im on my b/fs phone and it went on for like hours. but the thing that is making me so mad is that my b/f thinks that its ok for him to do something but its not ok for me. like it should be ok that he talks to this girl just b/c its his friends friend and they talk to her at night just for something to do. but yet i cant even talk to my bestest guy friend that i have known way longer than my b/f, b/c if i do talk to him then it gets back to my b/f that i was cheating on him and hanging out with this guy and just a bunch of crap...i just dont understand what the deal is and just need a lil advice as to what to do

[suprema99]

I would say tell him about that as soon as possible before he thinks it's perfectley fine, too make all the desicions in the relationship. I would suspect, he doesn't trust you then, it's obvious.

[Mun]

If I was you I would tell him that we can each have our own friends and that doesn't mean we are cheating. If he can't accept with that then maybe it's because he WOULD cheat with a female friend and thinks you would do the same.

 

He sounds like a very controlling ( and disrespectful) type are you sure you want to be with that kind of guy?

[bellaBH]

why was she mad when you answered YOUR boyfriend's phone? That is very disrespectful to you and he shouldn't allow it to happen.

[loveydovey]

Agreed with above posters. He shouldn't prohibit you from doing ANYTHING that you don't agree with. And yes, that is a good question...why was the girl getting upset with him and interrupting his time out with you, the girlfriend?