scythian Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 Hey guys/gals, You might remember my last post, link removed Turns out things aren't as smooth as I'd hoped, I just can't seem to pull myself together enough to ask her out... She seems kinda rough around the edges when we talk, I don't think she sees me as someone who would ask her out which kinda worries me.... I can never seem to lead the conversation to suggesting that we get together sometime. Any advice? Link to comment
justwonderingkid Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 i dont see what advice your asking for..is it what to say? if so... bring up a good movie coming out and ask if she wants to see it? anything like that.. if she says no...watch for something that she wants to do it some other time, if she doesnt ask to go somewhere another time then that could just be an excuse to not go and she wants to let you down lightly.. if this isnt what you wanted to know then re post well i hope this helps you Link to comment
misery12 Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 Try another approach. Maybe come off as mysterious or something, if she's not opening up with you, don't open up with her, keep her guessing.. and ALWAYS be happy around her, at least for the beginning, because no girl wants to be around a downer. Just show her what she'd be missing if she didn't go out with you. Link to comment
justwonderingkid Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 also you dont want to look desperate.. if you look like you are trying to hard well actually i read this in an ebook... dont try! dont act anything different than you would with any other friend, she could end up getting attracted to you more..as for asking her out the movie thing i just said would work and many other like it Link to comment
heloladies21 Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 Either you ask her out or you don't ask her, it's as simple as that. But don't wait too long or else she might think you're not interested anymore and she will close the door on you! Link to comment
justwonderingkid Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 ill 2nd what heloladies21 said, many times that has happened to me Link to comment
scythian Posted June 27, 2005 Author Share Posted June 27, 2005 Hey sorry if it was vague to start off with. Yeah heloladies21 I'm pretty sure she has closed the door on me, i think that was what was confusing me! Is it still too late to ask her out, do you think? We're good friends I don't want to crap things up... Thanks for the advice so far! 8) Link to comment
heloladies21 Posted June 27, 2005 Share Posted June 27, 2005 Screw being friends, ask her out. She'll say yes or no. Either way you'll have your answer and be able to move on from there. Link to comment
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