perfectliljewel Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 I have been cutting for about a year and my mom knows but she acts like she doesnt care. I don't know what to do. I know it isn't right, but I don't know how to stop. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!! Link to comment
Nkaleidoscopic Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 Go somewhere to get help or focus on stopping to cut. If you do it when you're mad, stop letting people get you mad and making you do that to yourself. They shouldnt have control over you. Most importantly, get help. Link to comment
suprema99 Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 Forget what your mom says then if that's accurate. If she doesn't care about it, sadly she might then have some serious problems of her own, if that would be the case here. If you know it's wrong, that's a great start in trying to make yourself better in the future. Goodluck Link to comment
hurtwou Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 I use to cut too hunny, and you know what nothing is worth hurting yourself over....Absolutely nothing! Life is to short to do stuff like that....Get help! Before you cut to deep Link to comment
kskm Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 Think about having to one day explain the scars on your body to your children Link to comment
perfectliljewel Posted June 25, 2005 Author Share Posted June 25, 2005 thanks so much for all the suggestions but when i get mad every1 better get out of the way or they will get hurt, ya know? so i guess instead of trying to kill some one else i just "kill" myself. i have a really bad temper........ like my step dad only not that bad. i am also anerexic b/c im afraid im going to look like my mom when i get older. stupid i know but ya. and i know this is no excuse but my dad died when i was 10 right in front of my face then like 5 months ago his police dog he left with me died so it is kind of like my entire life is falling apart and i just dont know what to do. about the "get help" part ive tried but the only way i can get help is if my mom will wake up and care about me so she can get me into some kind of counceling but... she doesnt care and probably never will Link to comment
Hope75 Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 Jewels, We just found this on the forum. Alot of people suggested that you get help, meaning talking to a new and better therapist. I think it could change your life in a good way. It sounds like you really want to stop, but just don't know how to go about it. Someone who is trained in helping you understand why you cut in the first place, and then how to change your mind set and find alternate ways to deal with stress and anger could be a very good thing for you. What do you think about it? You know we care about you but that there is only so much that we can do. Do you want to get some help and learn to stop? Hope Link to comment
perfectliljewel Posted August 22, 2005 Author Share Posted August 22, 2005 i dont want to talk to some one i dont know about the deepest parts of my life.... Link to comment
darkblue Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 You didn't know me before you started talking to me. Link to comment
perfectliljewel Posted August 22, 2005 Author Share Posted August 22, 2005 ya and you havent done anything like tell me im worthless and stuff Link to comment
darkblue Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 You saw a bad therapist. You know you are not worthless. But there is someone out there that can help you with your problems a hell of a lot more than me DN and Hope. Link to comment
Hope75 Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 That's right. You opened up and talked to us, and we aren't even trained to handle a situation like yours. One bad therapist doesn't mean they are all like that. If you found the right one I think it would help you alot. After all that you have been through, you need to learn to find a way to come to terms with it and to handle it the right way so that you can be happy and not have these fits of anger and self destruction. Link to comment
perfectliljewel Posted August 22, 2005 Author Share Posted August 22, 2005 how do i find the right one though Link to comment
Hope75 Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 It might be like test driving a car. You have to go and try one out, talk to them, and see if you feel comfortable there. You may try a few before you find the one that suits you best, and that's OK. The important thing is that you feel comfortable with them. If you feel as though you can't share and be honest with them-- they aren't going to be able to help you. Link to comment
BigRedneck2587 Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 hehe i didn't want to be left out Link to comment
Lost1n7heDark Posted August 24, 2005 Share Posted August 24, 2005 I don't really know what to say, so uh... Good Luck with the therapist thing. I really hope you find a good one who'll help you. I'll stick with uh...trying to stop myself... Good luck! Link to comment
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