In a relationship that's peaceful but unexciting, unsure whether to continue

[tattoobunnie]

1 hour ago, anon4108 said:

feeling of disinterest

If you are disinterested, you answered your own question.

But maybe you should chill.  You are hanging out and getting to know eachother.  You could be dating for six months, and years, and it still doesn't work out.  And, yes, your expectations of only dating for one month, can still be awkward.  This is why you shouldn't put all your eggs in one basket.

[Cherylyn]

3 hours ago, anon4108 said:

Agree with this completely.

 

It's kind of the opposite - I prefer spending my off hours working on hobbies, fitness, read etc whereas she'd want to go out, drink, de-stress that way (or just chill at home watching something) and just relax. Regardless, your point stands either way - there's a gap.

Both of you are opposites and opposites don't always attract.  During your off hours, there's a disconnect.

[catfeeder]

10 hours ago, anon4108 said:

...there's multiple sources of pressure. My parents aren't pressuring me, but I do feel my options will reduce as I age...

Consider the value of having lots of options if you're too tied down to explore them.

Then consider why you don't really need 'many' options, just the right one.

Don't rush for no 'real' reason, it will pressure you to choose badly.

Hold out for good simpatico, and you will thank yourself when you find it.

Trust your gut.