I need some advise! PLEASE!

[acamp16]

Hi. I am 16 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for exactly 1 year and 1 month. It's been a long time! It started out pretty good then we had our ups and downs...It started being like we'd have an argument once a month, then every other week, then every other day, then every day. It would seem like we'd break up every day then get back together... I mean, I love him very much, but I don't think he feels that way anymore. He was doing fine for about 5 months and now all of a sudden he's going back to the name calling and threatening... He brings up crap from the past that I did to hurt him and he promises that he won't because otherwise it's not going to work. I don't bring up the things he did to me because I actually want it to work... We'd be just fine for one minute then we'd start talking about something from the past, of course, then we'd start argueing... Does he like to fight with me or what?! I don't understand him anymore! When he's mad he acts like a completely different person and I don't even know. I told him I can't be with someone I am going to be afraid of if he keeps doing this. I would want to break up with him and stay away, but he comes over to the house the day after... I don't know. He can't act like an adult and be civilized about this and just be like ok it's done I won't come around... You know? I don't know. I just need somone else's point of view and if you want me to explain this better than just write back. Thanks!

[DN]

Don't stay with someone who calls you names and threatens you. Dump him fast, tell him you don't ever want to see him again and go no contact. If he harasses you in any way, call the police.

[acamp16]

It's hard because I've tried avoiding him and everywhere I turn he's like right there, it's scary... I would call the police, but when he's pissed off to the extreme he said that that's the last thing I'd want to do. It gets old and I just want him to leave me alone. It's sad that someone can act like that, I don't get it....

[punchy504]

in the first post you said you wanted it to work, in your last you said you can't get rid of him, make up your mind

[acamp16]

You don't get it. Pay attention. I would want it to work, but it doesn't seem like he's ever going to change that's why. I would want to stay away from him because it's just too much drama for me.

[sweetsound]

if you want to break up with him them do it about him coming over don't answer the door try to find some one that can love you snd treat you like the world. the thing about fighting it just symbolizes that he scared to lose you thats why he does it but what he dont realize is that he's losing you

just keep your head up