how to ask to hang out

[damnboy]

I think this girl in one of my classes might like me. She talks to me during that period and stuff alot and writes things like i love you

 

I wanna hang out with her but I don't know what to say. I think it would be kinda weird for me to call her out of no where and ask her what shes doing so I gotta ask her in school.

[sidehop]

Can I assume you're a shy person in the beginning? She's giving you all kinds of hints that she likes you. It's pretty obvious.

 

Pretend she's just your best buddies like others...what do you talk to your friends about? Sports? Music? And go from there...Friday is coming so why not ask her if she wants to go see a movie that you both might like?

 

Just be friendly but confident and I'm sure she won't say no

[damnboy]

I'm shy around some people.

 

No one goes to the movies or anything around here really. Should I just ask her what shes doing, idk I feel kind of weird cause she never said anything about hanging out.

[sidehop]

Ya, just be casual and ask her what she's doing on the weekend. I'm sure you have things you have other things planned and be like 'well I'm not doing anything Saturday if you want to..." and ask her out for coffee, lunch...something simple

 

Smile and nod as you ask...she will say yes & that's all you have to think

[DN]

If she gave you her phone number it is not in the least weird if you call her - far from it.

[damnboy]

I got a new phone and she said do you have my number in here then put it in. I just don't know what to say to her because we've never talked about hanging out.

[DN]

well now is your chance totalk about it - go for it - you can do it.

[damnboy]

what I'm asking is how should I do it. Out of nowhere just what are you doing tonight?

[DN]

say something like - since you put your number in my phone I thought I would call to make sure it worked - then ask her how are things etc.

[damnboy]

nah that wouldn't work cause shes hit me up before and I've hit her up before. PLus that would sound really gay if I called and said I wanted to make sure the number worked.

[DropToZero]

Lmao at this post...god man, stop thinking so much. She gave you her number, even tho you didnt ask, call her up and ask her out...stop whining about finding a 'reason' to call, your reason should be "Hey what's up, this is ____" her --"oh hey" you--"yea I had to call and make sure you didnt give me a fake number(she may laugh), but anyways, I was thinking of goin out to _____'s(friends name) to hang and watch a movie(since you said no one goes to movies, rent one, even better b/c you can still talk and flirt), would you want to come over and hang out with us...maybe even bring some friends if you can..?" find a friend who has a decent size TV, maybe surround sound, and see if he'll hook you up one nite and you can all watch together....that good enough....? no more questions now...do it.