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So a few months ago my boyfriend broke up with me. He said it was because he felt stuck. We used to work together but then he had the opportunity to transfer to a location closer to his house. He took it because it would save him more money and time which is completely understandable. After a few month of him working in the new location things were going great. We had an amazing relationship. One day he randomly told me we needed to talk and that it was important, he started texting differently. I was nervous but we met up the next day and he told me that his ex was working at the same location and she’s “ apparently “ going through something rough and that he was the only one that could help her. He didn’t know what to do so he broke up with me. He was crying and telling me that he didn’t want to do this but he didn’t want to put me in this sort of position. We had been dating a little over 9 months by the way. So we keep in contact for about two months after and we’d even see each other here and there. Then he got into a car accident. I was terrified when he sent me a picture. I was so sad and I told him that I loved him and that I’d always be there for him. He said that he appreciated me so much. Then pretty much after that we stopped talking. We hadn’t talked in a few weeks. Then after a few weeks later he posted a picture of his new girlfriend on Snapchat that was taken “ 2 months ago “ of them getting ice cream. Even though that was around the same time we had hung out and gotten ice cream as friends of course. After the day we hung out it was obvious that he was still attracted to me with the way he was flirting after, through text. Another thing is that he would never post on Instagram , he legit had 0 posts and after 9 months of us dating he never posted about me but after a couple months he posts about her. He puts her on his snapchat a lot too. He deleted a lot of his followers and he unfollowed a lot of people but he hasn’t removed me. I posted a picture of this Christmas light event I wanted to go to a while back and he took her there recently. He also posted today on snap that they were at this fancy restaurant we to always go to together. He still watches my stories. She apparently works at the same place as him. She’s also not as attractive honestly. Maybe she’s a rebound ? Honestly I don’t know. We had a really good relationship and our breakup was super unexpected. Could it be that maybe he was bored of me ? I know I’m my part I didn’t do anything wrong, I always did my best to make him happy and I was always faithful. I don’t understand. Is there a reason why he removed so many people from Instagram and not me ? I mean we don’t talk anymore , he has a new girlfriend, if he moved on then why hasn’t he taken me off ?

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