please help me, im in desperate need

[misery12]

Okay, I have been with my girlfriend for about 5 months or so..

and we never really talk about our relationship, until tonight, when I asked her how she thought about the whole thing...

and she said its good.. except it doesnt feel like before.. because we use to have convo's.. now we just ask each other questions.. but I said thats because we know so much about each other..

so I just want her to know, that I havent changed, and that I am here for her.. I kind of felt sick when she said it.. because I dont want her to like me any less.

What can I do. that doesnt require talking.. but taking some action..

[matt_r]

You need to think of a thing that she also has an interest in and start talking about it. I'm sure you know something that she's interested in or likes.

[Agrajag]

It's totally natural for her to feel that way. All relationships start to 'lose their shine' after a while. Try changing it up a bit. Keep things different and changing

[misery12]

what do you mean by changing??

I don't want her to feel the spark is gone.. and break up with me suddenly..

she is coming to my cottage this weekend with me and my family.. will this help the situation.. it's for over night.

What can I do, to make her smile when I come into the room.. and not just be like.. hey.

I want her to be happy when she see's me..

I waited for like 3 hours to tell her that.. because she was helping her dad out.. but what can I do from here??

please help

[whatfor]

maybe get a teddy bear and give it to her with a big smile when you see her next, or get one beatiful red rose for her. Just dont do too much at the same time - just not to scare her away.