I need reassurance

[Mack1990]

Hi there,

 

For the record, this is kind of explicit, so bear with me. I have been really anxious all day over this.

 

So I’ve had this cloud hanging over my head all day long.

 

Last night I went home with a woman I’ve known, we’re not dating, just a FWB thing. I went to her apartment, we started making out, then she pulled me into her room. At that point, I’m already pretty hard down there, and I did touch myself a few times. She then wanted me to start fingering her, which I did. I only went up top though, I didn’t go deep inside her with my fingers, just rubbed her spot. We never had sex though, because I didn’t have condoms, and I don’t want to impregnate anyone.

 

I keep thinking that maybe somehow my “stuff” got inside of her, and that she may accidentally get pregnant. I just need someone to tell me that it’s gonna be fine and that she can’t get pregnant since I didn’t ejaculate inside of her, which I didn’t. I have anxiety issues, and I overthink things a lot.

 

Can someone help me? Thanks.

[DanZee]

Well, I wish I could set aside your fears, but there is a slight chance you could have gotten her pregnant. It's a really small chance, but it's not impossible.

 

In the future, you might want to be a bit more careful than you were last night.

[Clio]

It sounds very unlikely that you got her pregnant but next time you need to be more careful. STDs like HPV and herpes can also be transmitted this way.