Jump to content

What does it mean?


Recommended Posts

I liked one boy since the begging of this year. He seemed to be nice but not really open , more like a shy guy. We’ve done one project for class together and then we got to sit together. I thought he might be interested in me because of the way he looked at me. We spoke couple of times but it wasn’t a proper conversation. Couple of weeks ago i found the courage to ask him for a coffee. But he said that he is not the type of guy to go anywhere, he doesn’t enjoy going out and i shouldn’t take it in a rude way . What does this mean? Does it mean definitely no and i should move on , or do i still have any chance with him?

Link to comment

Is it a relationship you are looking for? If so, what kind of relationship could you have with someone who doesn’t go anywhere ever?


Whether you have a chance or not, I would say that the ball is definitely in his court now. You bravely made the first move (and you should be proud of going after what you want) - now would be his turn to pursue you back.


Personally, for my own sanity, I would take his response as a “no, not ever” whether or not it’s true. Not much you can do from here... so why sweat it?

Link to comment


This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.

  • Create New...