Starsabove32 Posted February 15, 2018 Share Posted February 15, 2018 I'm currently adapting to a life of no alcohol. I was a binge drinker, and it was having a very negative impact on my life. I am seeing my partner for five years who works in a bar, continues to drink and smoke weed. There is no chances of him stopping, and I have to accept that. I have joined loads of activities, and getting involved in groups. While my partner works, smokes weed and watches TV. That's pretty much his life. I spend a lot of evenings alone, which is nice to relax, but lonely having no one else in the house. I can't stop picking at him now, noticing the differences in us. He has no ambition to change or do anything else in his life. Whereas I am the opposite. I'm so confused. I do love him. We get on well... But people have often said I'm selling myself short. I don't know what to do. If we can still work. Going off alcohol has been a massive change in my life. From dealing with stress sober to loss of social circle... Anyone else experienced this or have any advice??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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