Flowergirl39 Posted December 26, 2017 Share Posted December 26, 2017 So I’m 17 years old and I like a guy who’s 19 years old. He has liked me since I was 13 and I know this because his family members told me that he sort of had the whole “love at first sight thing” that happened when he saw me :) And for years he just stared at me from afar and did nothing although his staring was really obvious. Then this year he said “hi” to me but I just got so nervous that I walked away without even smiling back or anything cuz I was so nervous but I really didn’t mean to shun him. To make matters worse, my other friends started teasing him for liking me and I think it made him really uncomfortable. I don’t know if he still likes me and what I should do to make things right. Does anyone have any advice? Link to comment
shessofly Posted December 26, 2017 Share Posted December 26, 2017 Are you interested in getting to know him? If so, initiate a conversation with him. It probably took all he had to utter that one word. Up to you to approach now, IMO. Link to comment
Flowergirl39 Posted December 26, 2017 Author Share Posted December 26, 2017 I am! But now I don’t know how to approach him cuz he seemed so upset after I accidentally shunned him Link to comment
niceguy84 Posted December 26, 2017 Share Posted December 26, 2017 Just go up to him and say sorry I shunned you the other day I had alot on my mind would you like to go for a coffee my treat. Link to comment
niceguy84 Posted December 26, 2017 Share Posted December 26, 2017 Honestly I was in his position alot as a teen all the girls I was into were into my friends as I was the ugly one lol. Found out years later a few were interested but they never spoke to me. If you like the guy go talk to him Link to comment
Flowergirl39 Posted December 27, 2017 Author Share Posted December 27, 2017 How Long did you take to get over a crush? Link to comment
niceguy84 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 Hard to say they were all different. Some a few weeks, some months. I just turned 33 the other week and my first post was about a crush I had on a new girl at work. I got over that pretty quick she just wasnt my type. Link to comment
Flowergirl39 Posted December 27, 2017 Author Share Posted December 27, 2017 Hmmm in your opinion, has he maybe given up on me? Link to comment
niceguy84 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 Its possible (cant really say for sure as we are all different) Best way to find out is to speak to him ask him out for a coffee or something Link to comment
niceguy84 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 Ment to say its possible hes still interested Link to comment
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