jbone1973 Posted December 1, 2017 Share Posted December 1, 2017 Hi everyone I have not been on here for a while but used this site allot a few years back and it was a massive help. My storey is complicated. I had been seeing my x on and off for three years with a nine month break in between after I found she had been cheating on me repeatedly with the same guy for a year. After nine months we got back together as she never stopped trying to get me back. We lasted another year but I finished it because I never trusted her after that and it was driving me mad and I was become a jealous . I found messages on her phone from another guy saying he had naughty thoughts about her and I ended it. We have now split for three months but the problem I have now is she will not stop trying to get me back. She texts me multiple times every day offering sexual favours to trys to manipulate me and has lied about being ill and having counselling and will do anything to get me back. I tried to block her but when I do she just turns up at my house and will not leave. What makes it harder is that I do still love her and would love to be with her if I thought I could trust her but I know it would drive me mad and be a rubbish relationship. I am actually thinking of moving before I end up giving in and wasting another three years of my life. After a while I always start to believe that she's telling me the truth and get back with her. Has anyone else had a similar situation with an actractive manipulative women that will not take no for an answer. It's a strange problem to have but it's driving me nuts and I have been close to giving in and getting back with her but I know it will end in tears. Link to comment
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