notsureanymor Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 Hi me and my ex have dated for almost 2 years. I'm 19 she is 17. We broke up last Sunday on the 12th. well i broke up with her. She was being really distant, not putting an effort. We were in a fight and she didn't want to make up or wasn't putting any effort as if she cared. also she wouldn't hang out with me and say no to movies with me but yet go see the same movie with someone else (guy). So i broke it off. We were on a "break" for like 2 months or so before this. not really a break. we were for like 3 days then i thought we got back to get together but it turned out i was wrong. ill explain why soon. So then monday i reached out and she responded " ill ttyl after work" which never happened. I reached out Wednesday. I said alot, saying sorry if i seemed pushy or insecure ect blah blah, cause i didn't know what we are." I then said "just tell me what you want, space ill give you space, if you never want to see me you'll never see me." Shortly after texting that. I saw she blocked me on snapchat. right after doing so she posted a story of another guy and saying that shes happy with what she now has. (same guy she went to the movies with and i just respected it because she said they're friends...) I was crushed. Still am. Later i learned from a trust worthy mutual friend that she and him been talking for a week and a half. And my ex said to the mutual friend that we broke up weeks ago. Then Thursday i found out more info. That she went to her ex house 3-4 weeks ago( i knew about) they been friends since the start of the relationship so I had to respect it. They only dated for a month. Anyhow what i learned is that they made out... i learned from another mutual trust worthy friend he said she told him this 2 weeks ago. my friend asked about me to her and she replied "well were just f*cking and stuff". I really feel like my heart has been ripped. She then replied to my text that i sent on Wednesday of me apologizing and wanting to know what she wants. She replied my text on Thursday and it said "bs^" . this is so unlike her I have no idea. its all a blindside. I have since yet responded and it is now saturday night. I been told to just go NC and she will eventually reach out since the advice i was given , shes in a rebound? maybe? and shes running away from her feelings since she never opened up to me and shes just hiding from someone else? well what is your guys take? If it means anything all her relationships never went past a month but me and hers went 1 year and 8 months. also we are each others first for losing virginity. She still follows me on instagram and looks at my IG stories all the time, she has yet to post anything publicly about someone else on IG. Some people have said she blocked me on snapchat for my protection to not see him? lmao if that makes sense i guess. What do you guys think? im almost 100% sure she has no clue i know about all of this. Link to comment
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