phillybilly Posted November 12, 2017 Share Posted November 12, 2017 So I met this girl about 4 years ago. We were friends as we were both dating other people. I broke up with my gf at the time but she was still dating hers. We started to flirt at work and she would say how much she can't stand her current bf and that she wants to dump him. She says he emotionally abuses her and has even put his hands on her a couple times. She was sending me nude pictures while they were still dating so she clearly didn't care about this guy. So they break up and about 2 months later me and her start dating. Things were good for the first 8 months or so then she started showing some questionable signs. -Extreme jealousy. If a girl I knew from High School or past jobs even said hi to me she would get mad. One time a former co-worker said hello at a bar and she dumped her beer out. I never cheated or did anything to make her not trust me. I was good to her -Insecurity. She rarely had a nice thing to say about people -Lack of ambition. She hated working and constantly complained about it no matter what the job was. She didn't want kids either and wanted to be a "stay at home dog mom". -Poor handling of conflict. Even minor disagreements would turn into big fights and she would always leave the scene instead of talking it out. -Other questionable behavior include: crying at a restaurant when they messed up her dish, then when they brought the new one out she refused to eat it. Not wanting me to watch Game of Thrones because of the nudity. Getting mad when my boss asked me to help train a female co-worker. Any time I did anything without her whether it be with friends or family she would get short with me. So I put up with this crap for 3 years and finally I couldn't do it anymore. So we broke up and it was mutual. 3 weeks after our breakup she was back in a relationship with the guy she was dating when we met. It absolutely tore me apart that she moved on so quick especially with a guy who she claimed to hate. I know she isn't good for me but I still miss her like crazy. It's been 3 months since we broke up. What should I do? Link to comment
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