Tarun Posted October 17, 2017 Share Posted October 17, 2017 I started liking a girl. I started doing things for her, taking care of her. First she rejected me many times, and was really rude to me and said she's not a virgin. She then told me she had a break up, and it was terrible. I still began caring for her more and more. After some time she said that she was getting attached to me, and that she has to go abroad for 3 years, so she can't see this reaching anywhere. She started spending time with me and talking to me at night before going to bed. But I always found her behavior to be peculiar towards one of her guy friends. She said he's just a friend. Then she said, that, that guy helped her over come the depression she was in, after her ex cheated on her, whom she loved madly. She started telling me that she likes me, but she was continuing to have late night, chats with that guy. I had objection to this; she kept on telling me 'it's ok'. Then one day, she told me, that she lost her virginity, in frustration, and on forceful attempt by that guy whom she talked to at night. She said she later realized it was a mistake, so she told him to stay away, but she said she had slept with him 3-4 times, because she came to know from her confidante, that her ex was 'supposedly' sleeping with another girl. She used to spend nights at her ex's apartment, making out, but didn't lose her virginity to him, but to the 'depression rescuer' guy, out of anger. We tried to work on our relationship. Now, she's abroad, and she tells me, she cannot love me emotionally, she cannot care for me physically, she does not have time for me, and she keeps on telling me to live practically, and stop fighting with her, because she cannot help me, she cannot care for me, and that her life is getting busier. Also, she first promised me that she'll get married one year later, but now she's saying, that it'll be 2 years. She enjoys late night parties with guys and girls, she drinks, and gets high, to the extent she cannot climb stair case. She doesn't mind talking to other guys late at night, this thing bothers me. I have told her countless times. She wants me to propose to her, but she cannot tell her parents before that, about me, at all, she says. Also, she told me, that it is my duty to make her feel secure, and if she does not get to meet my parents before she goes abroad, she'll be really insecure. I cared enough for her, and despite not wanting it, I set up a meeting of her, with my Parents. She really enjoys attention from people. She gets really hurt when people are not staring at her. She always says she wants to be hot and wants that all guys look at her. She says to me that loves me, that no one can care for her like I do, but then at times she blames me for loving her. What do I do? Is she really trustworthy? I have spend countless hours over this. Please suggest, where am I making a mistake? Link to comment
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