phone sex

[A]

well, iam in a long distance relationship&i wanna give myself& my man pleasure so,the only way is the phone sex,which i know nothing about (iam inexperienced)..the funny thing is that he knows that i come from a really conservative family so i am sure he will not try to initiate this,so as not to freak me away. but the truth is iam willing to know more&do more of this stuff but iam embarressd to tell him&more embaressd to initiate it,so..is there a way i can do or say anything on the phone that would stimulate him to start the phone sex.. &wont make me look cheap??

[mshollywod]

A, apparently guys get off on this kind of stuff so I don't think it would make you look cheap. If you are not comfortable doing it I wouldn't do it. I've been asked to do that and I felt like a fool then some of my friends do it and love it. So I guess to each is own. What is your comfort level regarding this?

[kaboom]

Real simple. A phrase like "You know, I would REALLY love to unbutton your pants right now..." will kick it off no problem...

about looking cheep... well if he knows you well enough, the he should KNOW you arent!

[providentielle]

I used to do this with my ex, I felt really self conscious at first but I really enjoyed it once I got into it. I think that letting him know you want to try will be really easy, ask him what he'd do to you if you were together or tell him you are feeling horny or say anything along those lines!