camwhite18 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 To keep It short, I broke up with a girl but now i feel guilty for everything and shameful. -We had a lot of arguments and she made me feel like i was the blame for all of them. -for one month we couldnt even hangout because she brought up things that she didn't like and I defended them, she said i should have just not argued with her, but last time i checked, it take two to Argue and i was upset that she couldn't understand a relationship flowed both ways. - she even claimed I made her physically sick for that whole month. And thats something I would never blame my partner for. - she always said she know what she wants because shes older, but the times where I didn't do what she expected me too, she would rudely call me out and try to correct it for me. She got mad over little things And I was defensive, because I appreciate she tells me what she dosent Like, but if i didn't do exactly what she wanted, she was upset, saying any older gentlemen would have done this. -she even got her mom involved, shes 24 and I'm 21, and when we had arguments, her mom Sent me 5 paragraphs sticking up for her daughter and when i called her out on it, she said she didn't know her mom sent that, which I find hard to believe. Everytime I slightly raised my voice and talked to her in a louder tone, she'd threathen to hang up the phone saying , " stop yelling at me" when i wasn't, Every time i told her my side, i felt like she wasn't listening. She never apologized for Anything, and i was apologizing 20 times a day for the smallest stuff. I moved to a new city and really don't have a lot of people to talk to about this, but these feeling of shame and guilt for my mistakes in the relationship are really eating me alive, anyone know how to deal with this? This girl really screwed with my head, i almost feel manipulated and now i feel like im crazy, no lie. I'm glad the relationship is over but i feel guilty for everything, but I know some of this HAS to be on her. Link to comment
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