[Pls Help] Don't know where I stand (Long read)

[ksk0_0]

Even though it's Long read.. please help me out everyone

 

Alright so heres the situation.

This girl I've known since last year, we pretty much hit it off really well - we had no ideas in our minds about each other last year and basically, I was sort of a shyguy last year. This year, everything has changed - I'm REALLY outgoing and not afraid to speak out or anything. I'm really enthusiastic and all that, like for example; say my school team was playing a game, and me and my friends decide to run around the field (AROUND, not ON) cheering our school on, I'd do it, even though I sort of make myself look like a fool - I've figured out that High School is basically fun. You know how people say "High school is the best 4 years of your life"? Thats exactly right.

 

ANYWAYS, back on topic about the girl. This year, being the enthusiastic crazy person that I am, she started to like me; Ever since last year and such, we've always flirted and chatted with each other (Note: both of us are huge flirts) I know her very well as does she knows me.

Her friend told me she liked me so I decided to ask her out since I also liked her back.

 

About 2 weeks ago, I asked her on the phone if she wanted to go out to a movie, and she changed that to a double date with a couple of friends. At first, her response on the phone was a quiet yes - so with sarcasm, I asked again what she said - she responded with a louder yes and seemed excited. But on the night of the double date, I wasn't able to go because we planned it too late and the timing was all wrong. She has been busy since then and I asked just a couple nights ago if she wanted to go out some place this weekend, she said sure. It's been almost a week and I don't know if she remembers still - things have been sort of tiny bit awkward at school between me and her, but I always talked and found a way to get her to speak out with the same attitude and expression that she used to be before I found out that she liked me. So I was planning to re-do that double date this friday with abit of Mini-Putt(Glow in the dark - should be fun) along with going to the movies.

Like I said, I'm very outgoing and crazy but when it comes to girls and relationships - I'm like.. 75% of what I usually am.. I sort of shy out tiny bit and go crazy in my head of what to do..

I'm not sure how I should ask her again if she remembers and if we are still a go for this friday.. I have a class with her tomorrow so... answers would be good ASAP..

 

Thanks in advance.

[Lily_11]

You should invite her, if you love her.

Take it easy.

You can say,"Would you like to come with me......?"

Please try.

[DN]

Ask her out again - but I hope your reason for breaking the first date was a good one!!

[ksk0_0]

I apologized to her that same night when she phoned me after and asked me why I didn't come. I told her I couldn't get there because the whole timing/planning was wrong (we planned it the day before) and they planned it at the time when I had a soccer game going on and they reminded me of the movie time right before I left.

 

I'm a pretty laid back - relaxed guy so I was thinking along the lines of "so we still goin out for this weekend?" but I don't know if shes already made plans or something..

[Sn0man]

Well, just ask her if shes still into it when you see her tomorrow...