janedawson Posted July 1, 2017 Share Posted July 1, 2017 So I started hanging out with this guy I knew for almost a year but we only got closer in the end of last year and ended up dating for 4 months and never made the relationship truly oficial. We had lots of things in common and I never felt so good with someone. But after 4 months he broke up with me saying "it's not you, it's me"/"still want to stay friends", saying that he couldn't be physical with anyone by that time (he was going through some family issues). Since then (it's almost been 4 months) we talked little from time to time and even go out as friends once, but since I still had feelings for him this situation really hurt me and I decided to back off for the past month. We even had a drunk conversation when I told him I still liked him and asked him to tell me to give up and he did tell me that "nothing was going to happen between us again". I thought I'll never hear from him again but on the past few weeks he left some public comments on my social media and even started a private conversation but then stopped answering and this made me think a lot of him again… some weeks ago we sent me a sweet happy birthday message but then didn't bother to continue conversation when I thanked him. I know deep down I still have some feelings from him and I really want to keep him in my life and still feel the need to hang out with him. So I've been thinking of asking him out to a concert next week but I'm afraid he'll just say no and I'll make a fool of myself. What do you think? Some advice on how to reconnect? Ps: for those who believe in astrology (I find it funny honestly, I'm a cancer girl and he is a taurus guy) Link to comment
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