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[Karibo]

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[DN]

You're right - it is a mess - and it's not a mess you can clean up. You just have to walk away from it. The whole thing is toxic; they are behaving badly and so are you. If you continue you will lose all self-respect. The chances of having a good relationship with your ex, his brother, or the friend are now zero anyway - the whole situation is too complicated.

[ptomaine911]

DN is right, you should walk away from it. I was in a relationship that was similar but not as bad. She got pregnant and I tried to work things out and forgive for the child's sake but she just kept up. Finally a judge awarded me custody and she basically lost her child because she couldn't stop trying to hurt me.

 

When you total an auto you don't try to fix it, you take it to the junk yard and leave it. The relationship is totaled.