Shortie71 Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 I met this guy on a dating site, spoke for ages. He asked from my email and sent me song he had recorded. Chat was polite and normal. He's a keen cyclist and am just starting out he was full of advice and encouragement. While chatting on the site, I randomly got a picture from him, he was wearing t shirt and boxers and stood in front of a sofa. I was shocked, but he shocked me even more with his embarrassment about it. He said he didn't know how that happened, he was mortified about it. He said there was no coming back from that now. I emailed later asking if he was ok, saying not to be to upset about it. We continued chat through email and then text. Am sure you can guess how this end one date which he said he enjoyed, arrangements for another and then a disappearing act. After an email explain how really nice I was, how he loved my company but he wasn't in the right place for relationship. He was sure one day I would make someone very happy. RED FLAGS MISSED AND REALLY NEED TO GET THEM OUT MY HEAD NOW I ended up more concerned about his reaction to sending picture, rather than why had I got that pic, who was the pic meant for instead? Why if he wasn't interested in dating why ask me what am looking for and ask for date after knowing it's a relationship if he doesn't want to ? We are both on dating site we met on and he's still showing active on and off for short periods throughout the day , why if he hasn't got time to date is he still using a dating site ? Am not expecting replies, just clearing my mind of stupid questions that will be never answered. Better out than in so they say. Thought this was a better way than going back to him asking in a text and looking like a implement idiot 😜 Link to comment
LaHermes Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 Well, I suppose on the bright side he was not starkers standing there, but actually dressed. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 Agree a lot of red flags. Too much chatting, not meeting asap. Why were the boxer shorts "a shock"?While chatting on the site, I randomly got a picture from him, he was wearing t shirt and boxers and stood in front of a sofa. Link to comment
Shortie71 Posted May 10, 2017 Author Share Posted May 10, 2017 Very true and wiseman yes boxer shorts 😂 Link to comment
LaHermes Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 Maybe the pic was for his mother, so she could see he was buying good underwear. There is a lot to be said for 3D. At least one can be reasonably sure of a man not turning up in boxer shorts. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 Do you consider a pic of boxer shorts sexting or just in bad taste? Was there something "up" in the boxer shorts pic?yes boxer shorts 😂 Link to comment
Shortie71 Posted May 10, 2017 Author Share Posted May 10, 2017 Yes wiseman, it was random to the conversation we were having, just out of the blue. As for 3D dating I do t always have the time to go out. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 Wait...it's a red flag to wear boxer shorts on the first date? 6813979]At least one can be reasonably sure of a man not turning up in boxer shorts. Link to comment
Shortie71 Posted May 10, 2017 Author Share Posted May 10, 2017 Lol you walked into that one LaHermes, wiseman man can I ask a serious question ? Link to comment
LaHermes Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 LOL Wiseman. I love the expensive silk ones, with a design of exotic birds on them. Right now I think of your animations, W, and I so so miss them. Link to comment
Shortie71 Posted May 10, 2017 Author Share Posted May 10, 2017 If your called wiseman 2 does that mean your second wiseman on here ? Link to comment
LaHermes Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 Oh no, Shortie. He is the MAIN man. Link to comment
Shortie71 Posted May 10, 2017 Author Share Posted May 10, 2017 Well my mistake wiseman 😳 Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 Back to your topic...the boxer pic. Just weird or ? Agree that messaging on a dating site with a random boxer pic mixed in is sort of odd.Well my mistake wiseman 😳 Link to comment
Shortie71 Posted May 10, 2017 Author Share Posted May 10, 2017 am thinking weird myself Link to comment
Shortie71 Posted May 10, 2017 Author Share Posted May 10, 2017 Am not a prude, awwww who am I kidding, am old fashioned. I can't help it 🤗 Link to comment
LaHermes Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 LOL Shortie. Yeh. The pic was a bolt from the blue. I can only he hope that in that attire he didn't still have his socks on. Heh heh Link to comment
Shortie71 Posted May 10, 2017 Author Share Posted May 10, 2017 Awwwwww that would have been the worse bit, we had been talking about cycling when the photo happened. After a pause all I could reply was you've got your bike saddle stuck in your boxers 🤗 Link to comment
Shortie71 Posted May 10, 2017 Author Share Posted May 10, 2017 Wasn't top model class 🙊😂 Link to comment
LaHermes Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 Maybe he thought he was auditioning for Full Monty 2. lol. Link to comment
Shortie71 Posted May 10, 2017 Author Share Posted May 10, 2017 He's auld enough to have fitted in nicely with the cast from the original 😬, awwww this nasty 😂 he's was a nice bloke and funny. Just those boxers 😂 Link to comment
LaHermes Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 I keep getting a visual since you mentioned that bike saddle. :saturn: Saddle up, lock and load. LOL. Link to comment
Maggl Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 I'd say he likes you and enjoyed talking to you, but is not interested in a romantic relationship. Usually people talk to more than one person at a time when doing online-dating, and sometimes there's a person you like talking to, so you keep chatting. If you're interested in a guy, I'd also advise to rather meet sooner than later to find out if you'd be a match in real life too Link to comment
Shortie71 Posted May 10, 2017 Author Share Posted May 10, 2017 Visual, I nearly went crossed eye, when I was out with him, it kept crossing my mind 😌 It's a pity he was a real good kisser and said he loved it to. Felt like a teenager again which can't be a bad thing Link to comment
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