Is it time to call it quits?

[Tom Mellor]

Me and this girl have a very strong relationship with each other. we are practically a couple just have not made it 'official' yet. We usually see each other and talk a lot at school every day and then we will practically text all evening. I have taken her out on a couple of dates and each one ended with a kiss and early more at one point. Lately she has started working and started revising and seems to have lost interest in texting me. I don't expect her to be texting me all the time but a short reason as to why she is not texting would be nice. I don't want to come across as needy. I was going to ask her to be in a relationship on Monday but she had to work and I really don't want to do it over text and would rather ask her out in person. I don't want to torture her either. Before the texting was very balanced and both of us gave equal amounts of effort but the past few days I have been making most of the effort, I don't know whether she's just too busy or she has lost interest in me?

[ffd34]

Hey Tom, I've read what you have said, and study and work at the same time is demanding. However, there are a few hypotheticals that could arise from what you have said. Is there a chance that she is interested in another man. Sorry to be so blunt, but that almost always seems to be why a girl seems to 'drop of the face of the earth' when it comes to communication.

[Billie28]

You have taken her out on two dates and consider your "relationship" very strong????

Ummm how did you jump to that conclusion?

[Tom Mellor]

We have had more than 2 dates and seeing her everyday at school has helped build our relationship

[Wiseman2]

a short reason as to why she is not texting would be nice.

This is as short and valid as it gets Mellor;6798374]she has started working