Should I ask her out or wait?

[Random Hero]

I have been talking to this girl so much recently, and about some really personal stuff. We went out a couple weeks ago, just as friends.

 

So, should I just openly say to her that I want to go out with her and be more than friends. Or should I just ask her out as a friend a few more times to see how things develop. I really feel that I have waited long enough, and I am sure she likes me. But could it scare her off if I told her I wanted to me more than friends?

 

Any ideas what I should do?

[teza]

Well if you both feel you know eavh other well enough then go for it whats stopping you? but be sure to say the right thing and not hurt her feelings as i know alot of people have problems like this when asking a girl out good luck

[heloladies21]

Keep it nice and casual man, you don't want to scare her off by being too serious. I did that once by taking this girl on all these serious dates and it blew up in my face. Just keep it cool and friendly and let things take their natural course. No pressing the issue.

[ShySoul]

Tell her that you would like to go out with her and that youa re starting to really like her but that you don't want to scare her by going to fast. Say that your ok with just being friends if thats all she wants. Be honest, honesty is the best policy.

[MetalJoe]

Ask her out, but keep it casual - and see how it goes from there.

 

I've learnt the hard way that you have to go for it if you want something to happen.

[Random Hero]

Ok, I asked her out, but she said she wasn't ready for a relationship just now, cos she isn't over her last boyfriend and shes got exams and stuff.

 

I thought she might say about her ex, she does seem really obsessed with him, but I thought it would still be ok. Anyway, i'll see how things go with her.