Girlindespair Posted March 12, 2017 Share Posted March 12, 2017 Today is a special day for him...and I had the urge to send a quick text message but decided to write here instead. It been almost 90 days since he broke up with me by text. If you read my first post you'll know that within the first few hours I immediately went NC and nothing has changed. I feel fortunate that he didnt reach out to me either because if he had, I know there were many times I wouldn't have been strong enough to resist...but that was then and this is now. Now, If he was to reach out to me I am able to wish him well and ask him to not contact me again. Not because I dont love or care about him anymore but because he made a decision to end the relationship and Ive respected his decision by leaving him alone. He doesnt get to change the rules now that the game is over. When this first happened I was convinced that "my breakup/situation" was unique to only me. No one could possibly understand our relationship because ours was sooo "different"....now that I can see clearly there was/is nothing unique about my situation. Somebody I loved decided he didnt want to be with me anymore. Once he made that decision there was nothing I could have said to change his mind, so why try? It has not been an easy 3 months but I can honestly say Im looking back on it with a smile. A smile because I made a decision and stuck to it, even on those days it felt like my whole world was falling apart and a simple text or call from him would make it all better, it wouldnt have and I know that now. This break up reminded me of how strong, determined and stubborn I really am....and I wont let myself forget that again. Link to comment
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