Clueless41 Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 My partner an i have been together 7years,living together for 6years. He's my daughter's father he left us when she was 8months old and we got back together when she 13years. He has always been laid back and I've dealt with alot of his financial problems so can't fully relie on him for this. About two years ago I stopped instigating sex as it was always me and cause I have to be in control of all the financial,household issues on a daily I wanted him to take control sexually. However this hasn't happened instead now we rarely have sex,an my partner hasn't got a clue how to approach me to instigate sex,he goes straight for the vagina instead of trying to turn me on!! Yes I've tried speaking to him but he's not forth coming!! I feel like I have to be the male in the relationship all the time and hes the woman if that makes sense?! I'm always expected to be in charge but sexually I want him to take charge!!! I'm starting to resent him do his lack of effort which makes me feel really angry towards him. Please help!!! Link to comment
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