zuhairhadi2021 Posted January 16, 2017 Share Posted January 16, 2017 Hello everyone, So as the title says, how do I find someone? I am an over the road truck driver and I am always(mostly) working. That being said, I was in a relationship for a long time which ended because of my job I guess and she cheated and I couldn't continue with her. I am still a man and wants what everyone else wants., to have a beautiful wife and have kids with her and grow old together? But if I don't even have time to meet new people then how am I going to even find someone. Even if I find someone then I wouldn't be able to give them much time. I am not super rich or anything, nor I have enough money to just stop working. So I can't quit my work or switch to something else. I have plans and goals in life and for which I need to work for my money so I can retire in somewhat decent financial position. I am home for approximately 3 to 4 days every two weeks. And I don't want to go to the nightclubs and bars to meet women who might not be interested in a long term relationship. Most of the women I have met are there because they are looking for a short term fun time. I am just confused about what to do about this women problem in my life. I live in a small suburb (Skokie) very close to Chicago and I am originally from India. I have even considered going back to India and finding a girl over there but then things like these come to my mind.... I am almost never home, is it even fair to marry someone and put them through this difficult times of being away from home and their own country and now me abandoning her all the time. Either way, it just seems unfair to me but what about my feelings and desires. I know I should not put someone through this but I am 30 now and I am getting old and I want a family too Can someone suggest me something besides quitting my line of work? Thank you Zo. Link to comment
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