How to fight intimidation? Help!!

[d_agra]

Hi

 

i would like to ask girls if they really find guys who are misterious a turn on? Reason i ask is because i'm kind of misterious guy from first glance however i also look quite intimidating as well which i'm not. The reason i ask is through talking with people i found that so many girls that i know at some point fancied me but i was too intimidated to be approach me. I'm biginning to get really annoyed about that . Even in clubs ,in the street when girls look they feel intimidated. How can i fix that?

 

thanks

[HelpmePLz]

Well I think she as PROBLEMS becuz I have Never herd that one.

 

 

 

 

i Don't think it would

[CarterJonas]

Smiling will help take away the intimidation.

[Jetta]

I totally go for the myseterious type. I generally find out they're shy rather than mysterious though. Maybe if other girls realized this or you were a bit better at picking up on their cues you'd date more.

[HelpmePLz]

will what type am I

[greenie35]

I also tend to go for the mysterious type...but I never do anything about it other than obsess and crush and mill about wondering what they are thinking until eventually I just give up and chalk it up as cowardice. I think smiling definitely. There's a guy I work with and he's in a band and he doesnt really smile, just stares...stares like he wants me to know he's staring, but he doesnt smile and he rarely talks to me unless it's about work. I don't think he's shy because he gets up on stage and plays music in front of people...just smile man...smile say what's up something like that..so that you come off as a nice person...I will talk to anyone if they seem like they are nice.

[Mysterious Gurl]

well mysterious is my name!

 

I think mysterious is cool because gurls are interested as to why your mysterious. But yeah quite often as Jetta rightly said those guys are shy.

 

smile, wink or nod just so gurls don't feel intimidated.

 

Miya

[easyguy]

How about a quick raise of the eyebrows when you first glance at each other?