thanks

[dzteetles]

.thanks for the advice

[So_sorry]

I don't think your silly...

 

Like I told someone else on here it is possible to forgive, but not forget. As long as you aren't bringing it up in his face than your okay. I think he is wrong for blaming you and he needs to take reponsibilty for his OWN actions. Maybe you should try counceling.

[Day_Walker]

First of all you need to decide what you want to do about this situation. After you have a clear idea of what you to do then you can begin to follow that course of action.

[Cant let go]

I'm in the same situation as you my b/f cheated 2 yrs ago and I cant get over it, I've gone to get help he's come with me but nothing takes that thought out of your head. You can forgive but you'll never be able to forget the pain he's put you through so it makes it that much harder to move on but if you really love each other and want it to work keep trying and try to get some help together it takes some of the argument away when theres an outsider sitting in.