how long does the healing take?

[takewhatuwant]

baby steps..feel your feelings...acknowledge your responsibility..find hobbies and develope yourself personally...IM doing all these things..

 

just wondering how long the lingering feelings will take to dillute and move through my body/heart after a year long relationship?

 

any advice? I heard it was half the time you were together or 3 months to deal with trauma....just curious.

[Seymore]

That's a wives tale, for lack of a better term. It takes however long it takes. Number one thing people have trouble with is unfriending, blocking or whatever - All social media, emails and phone numbers. I'd like to think I've gotten far, but if I hadn't deactivated social media and blocked things I never would have improved at all. Yet people still refuse to do so and wonder why they haven't healed. Hang in there.