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Well, I've been with my boyfriend for 5, going on 6 months and I found out a month or two after i started dating him, he lied to me about his age because he was older than me and didnt want me to care about that. He also lied to me about his name.... To make it worse, I found out from his ex girlfriend.... She also told me that 2 days after we started dating, He had sex with her. I was heartbroken because I had fallen in love with him, but finally got over it.... Later on in our relationship I was hanging out with some of my friends and he had left to go home...So there was 2 guys and 2 girls.. We all got drunk and the guys had sex with us... When I woke up the next morning I couldnt remember anything, but when I found out, I had called him and told him everything...

Then last week, I found out about this girl he had been talking to on the internet, and I had asked him about her.. He told me her name and said that she was 17 almost 18 in a month. But my friend, whose a hacker, thought it would be funny to log under his name and look at his stuff..... And he did. He found her profile and in her profile it had a webpage, so he went to that and started reading, and in it, it had said that she was 16 and her birthday was in March.. So she had juss turned 16..

My boyfriend had told me that he has never met her, and im unsure if i should believe him because he had lied to me about everything else... I dont know if I should break up with him because Im sick of his lying or if I should give him one more chance because I'm still in love with him.... Someone help me!

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Well to be honest i think that you are both as bad as each other, dont take that in a nasty way though, but you started going out, he had sex with his ex, he lied to you about his name and age, you say you love him and yet you get drunk and have sex with your friend? he lied about the girl he talks to on the internet??

 

Jeee there is definatly something wrong here, if you both loved each other you would not lie, cheat, and definatly not have sex behind each others back. you both need to sit down and have a serious talk, it seems like there is no trust what so ever in your relationship, have a good heart to heart conversation about thngs, clear up all of the lies, and tell him everything, and get him to tell you everything, and if you both think it is worth it, then try again, if not then by the sounds of it im pretty sure it wont take long for the both of you to move on.

 

Hope this helps, and im not being nasty in anyway, im juist giving my views on the situation! good luck and i hope everything works out for you.

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