What to do... When to ask...

[Doctor Smurf]

Well, if any of you remember I wanted to get a girl who came in to where I work. (Gym) Anyhow, I've got her e-mail last wednesday, (Well happy! lol). I was hoping to see her this Wednesday, gauge her attitude and ask if she would like to meet me the next day.

She's not going to be there Wednesday. She's going to a college open evening so at least I know what she's doing! Shall I try and gauge how she is over e-mail and ask her anyway, or do I wait until Wednesday after this one and try again?

 

I really don't want to scare her away see.

Please advise!

[usied]

i would just take it easy ..i make the mistake of coming on too strong all the time... but you live and learn

[randy]

if u have the courage to ask her face to face then wait until then next wednesday to ask (this is the better way). If you don't have the courage then do it over email.